Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself

7 reviews for Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself

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   Rated 5 out of 5

   Carla Lawrence – 1 May 2026

   If there is one book I believe every human being should read, especially those of us healing from trauma, people-pleasing, and emotional overextension, it’s Set Boundaries, Find Peace by Nedra Tawwab.

   This book is a life-changer. Nedra teaches boundaries in a way that is clear, compassionate, and deeply grounded in psychology. As I read, I found myself pausing often, not because the content was difficult, but because it was true. Her writing is direct without being harsh, validating without enabling, and practical without oversimplifying the emotional work required.

   What I love most is how she normalizes the discomfort that comes with setting boundaries while reminding us that discomfort is not danger, it’s growth. She breaks down the patterns we develop in childhood, the roles we unconsciously step into, and the ways we betray ourselves in the name of love, loyalty, or ‘keeping the peace.’

   This book helped me reflect more deeply on my own boundary journey, not just as a life coach, but as a woman learning, unlearning, and continuously choosing self-respect. Nedra makes it clear: Boundaries are not walls. They are bridges to peace, to safety, to healthy connection.

   I closed this book feeling clearer, stronger, and more anchored in what I need, why it matters, and how to communicate it. This is more than a self-help book, it’s a healing tool, a mindset shift, and a permission slip to reclaim your life.

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   Rated 5 out of 5

   Bea Walker – 1 May 2026

   This book was such a needed read. Set Boundaries, Find Peace explains boundaries in a way that’s clear, compassionate, and very relatable. It doesn’t feel harsh or judgmental—it feels supportive, like someone guiding you through how to protect your peace without guilt.

   I appreciated how practical it is. The examples made it easy to reflect on my own life, relationships, and habits, and I found myself highlighting and rereading certain sections. If you’re someone who struggles with saying no, over-giving, or feeling drained, this book is absolutely worth buying. It’s empowering without being overwhelming.

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   Rated 5 out of 5

   Ethan Clarke – 1 May 2026

   What a great book to understand how to manage boundaries with family, friends, and strangers! I got so much good advice from it that I put to use immediately, sometimes much to the dismay of others who apparently aren’t used to having people establish and enforce personal boundaries. It’s a powerful feeling to take charge of an important part of your life!

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   Rated 5 out of 5

   Emily Brown – 1 May 2026

   I’ve read a lot of self-help/therapy books, and this is in my top 3. It is extremely detailed but also easy and interesting to read. Every form of boundary problem is very clearly explained, and it includes tons of real-life, applicable examples of what to say in specific situations. She also offers really strong reasons to implement boundaries that will resound if this is something you struggle with. So many books explain WHY you need to do something but not HOW. This book covers both.

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   Rated 5 out of 5

   Richard – 1 May 2026

   This book can be a life changer if you haven’t been applying boundaries in your life. It has greatly helped me in applying boundaries at work and in my relationships. It is written in a clear way, which is easy to understand. It is not all academic, but rather provides practical ways in which you can go about applying boundaries in your life. Right down to the wording you can use when people push back and challenge your boundaries. One of the most useful and impactful self help books I’ve ever read. 5 stars all the way. Highly recommended.

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   Rated 5 out of 5

   Yen Liu – 1 May 2026

   The author lays out the points in straightforward terms, and leaves very little wiggle room. There are concrete sentences and examples that are extremely, EXTREMELY helpful. It really should have been that simple all along. Reading this made me realise just how much more peace and freedom I could have had my whole life. It also gives practical guides for how to actually set the boundaries. I think we commonly take in words from other people’s mouths just so readily, not realising that words not just only mean something, but DO things to our soul as well. But so very often people who struggle with boundaries treat utterances as “equal” and respond to them without verifying if we need to respond in the first place. It’s not just about saying No or total rejection. It’s about all the follow-ups and enacting the intention behind the “no” as well. In other words, this book is very nuanced, and not some simplistic BS about “rejecting toxic people” “just say no”, etc. Tawwab goes through why it matters and how to really make it a principle. A transformative read that should be taught in high school!

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   Rated 5 out of 5

   Jennifer Lindsey – 1 May 2026

   Learn what boundaries are, and how to use them to live a better life filled with healthier relationships. I used it in conjunction with Melodie Beatty’s, “Co-Dependent No More”, along with both respective workbooks. They helped me a great deal in learning why my relationships always failed, why I always seemed to wind up with the “wrong” guy and why I always found myself miserable. I learned why I would rather be abused and taken advantage of than face the terror of being alone. After setting boundaries in my life, and sticking to them, the amount of Drama in my life dropped significantly. I became stronger as a person. It helped me to develop my own identity, instead of being whatever others wanted me to be. It assisted me in becoming more independent and confident in both everyday and romantic relationships. I finally felt brave enough to try new things and get out of my “comfort zone”. I cannot recommend this book enough to anyone who feels like a doormat or living in a repeating cycle of unhealthy relationships. This book helped me to break those patterns and become a better me.